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Learn the Radical Candor framework by Kim Scott. A proven method to lead with both care and clarity—used at Google, Apple, and top-performing teams.
Imagine you're in a meeting, and you notice an employee walking in with their zipper down. What do you do?
✓︎ If you care personally and challenge directly, you quietly pull them aside and say, Your fly is down.
✓︎ If you challenge directly but don’t care personally, you might announce, Look, his fly is down! in front of everyone.
✓︎ If you care personally but don’t challenge directly, you stay silent, and the employee walks in unaware, which is often considered ruinous empathy.
✓︎ And if you neither care nor challenge, you stay silent for your own sake, which is manipulative insincerity.
This simple scenario illustrates the principles of Kim Scott’s Radical Candor book 📕 , a leadership philosophy she developed while working with top companies like Google and Apple. She believes that strong bosses build trust by balancing care for the individual with the courage to give direct feedback.
What makes a great boss? Kim identifies three key areas:
✓︎Guidance: Deliver honest, constructive feedback.
✓︎ Team-building: Put the right people in the right roles.
✓︎ Results: Lead with a focus on achieving shared goals.
Here are the 3 core principles of a great boss:
1. Make it Personal: Great bosses show they care, creating meaningful relationships with their employees that go beyond just work.
2. Get (Sh)it Done: A boss should not only provide feedback but also create a culture of accountability and collaboration to drive results.
3. Understand Why it Matters: Employees need to see the bigger picture. Helping them understand the “why” behind their tasks leads to a deeper connection and motivation.
Scott further explains the Radical Candor framework using a 2x2 grid: Care personally and Challenge directly.
The sweet spot is balancing both to foster trust and open dialogue and follow the 3 Core Principles of Great Leadership:
✓︎ Make it Personal: Show you genuinely care beyond just work.
✓︎ Get Things Done: Create a culture of accountability and collaboration.
✓︎ Explain the Why: Help your team see the bigger picture for greater motivation.
⏩ One of the powerful tools Scott shares is the Get Stuff Done (GSD) Wheel, which fosters organizational improvement through seven steps: 👇
🎯 Listen to all voices – Ensure everyone, including quiet members, shares input.
🎯 Clarify ideas – Explain concepts clearly to avoid confusion.
🎯 Debate to refine perspectives – Discuss concerns and refine approaches during product launches.
🎯 Decide based on facts, not egos – Make decisions using data, not personal opinions.
🎯 Persuade to gain buy-in – Align your idea with team values to show mutual benefits.
🎯 Execute with clear priorities – Complete tasks aligned with goals, setting deadlines for accountability.
🎯 Learn from the outcomes – Review successes and areas for improvement post-project to foster growth.
Lesson: Fear of conflict is the biggest destroyer of creativity.